Part 1 - the shock of it all Part 2 - settling down and getting your footing Part 3 - figuring out what comes next Part 4 - coming to grips with it all and starting to heal Part 2, hmmm? Now you realize that the sh!t is real and…

Welcome to the first installment of four discussing the subject of the layers of divorce recovery. We feel that the first step of course is shock. Those of us who have gone through this - we know this is true. Sometimes it slaps you in the face like a Mac…

What can we say? The Zombie Hoe Phase. Pretty self-explanatory? We debated on this subject to the fact that was it even a phase. But, yes, it damn is!! Not everyone goes through it. But most people do go through the Zombie Phase. The Hoe part is sometimes just extra.…

With a lot of effort and misdirection in between, we finally get to the fourth and final stage of ‘I just signed the divorce papers and I’m legally divorced! Now what?’ This episode has a lot of our heart and soul in it. Topics of: -To infinity and beyond -We…

After watching How to Build a Sex Room (HTBASR) on Netflix a few weeks ago both of us decided that it would be awesome if Lisa Lane from episode 8 would be on the show. It was just a far-reaching thought at the time. Sitting at home weeks ago bored,…

This is the second podcast in the series dealing with effects, consequences and happenings in the second stage of four dealing with divorce-recovery after signing the papers. Even though we feel it is not as intense a stage at stage one, it is nonetheless a very important one to focus…

Just a slight departure from our 4 part series, 'I signed the divorce papers, what's next?' Welcome, Tracy Ann Moore-Grant from the Amicable Divorce Network. Frustrated by mean and nasty divorces, Tracy started the network to help both attorneys and clients. Attorneys are vetted and accepted into the network to…

This is the second podcast in the series dealing with effects, consequences and happenings in the second stage of four dealing with divorce-recovery after signing the papers. Even though we feel it is not as intense a stage at stage one, it is nonetheless a very important one to focus…

Welcome to the first of four installments of divorce recovery stage healing. We discuss our first stage, appropriately named Stage One - it consists of the exact moment you sign your divorce decree papers and a few days later. It is the most intense of the four stages. Once again,…

Welcome A.J. Grossman, J.D. to the mic. A.J. runs an online presence called Leap Frog Divorce. It’s quite a different law firm/enterprise. They specialize in divorce dispute resolution. They also focus on the compassionate component of divorce - unlike almost all the other divorce lawyers I’ve met and heard about.…

This is one of those rare times we actually stuck to the script and item numbers. Carrying over traits and/or qualities from pre-divorce to post-divorce can be detrimental. We are listing some and giving you a heads up for easier divorce recovery. Topics of Mary Poppins in Denver, being comfortable…

Just when I thought we couldn’t do a podcast with more laughter than the Divorce and Laughter Podcast 074, we did it with this one. With a new mixer with some pretty awesome effects, it definitely gets a test. Discussing your post-divorce happy was interesting. Subjects of why do you…

As usual, we don’t stick to the actual number in the title. We just get so carried away. We decided to infuse a little positivity into the podcast today. These are our 5 positive events/lessons we have experienced in our post-divorce life. You can experience these too. Topics of no…

Join us as we dive into our top 5 (and more) roller coaster events during our divorce recoveries. Ranging from subjects of friends to missing your ex, we glide along the ups and downs of each of our struggles after our divorces. Topics of being blindsided, living like the Jones,…

Communication is so important in the pre, middle and post-phases of divorce. This podcast could have gone on for hours but we had to shorten it down and maybe do a part two! The four subjects of in person, text, email and no communication are the main topics of this…

Infused with technical difficulties and laughter (as usual), we actually got through all of our top 10 list. Get past the first 10 minutes of limited sound quality and a real live booper segment - then the knowledge dropping continues. Tales of heartbreak and anger, dating too soon, Jesus got…

Divorce Devil Podcast 079: Top 10 ways to live in the same house, not divorced yet and you’re both in relationships. Interesting??? Welcome, Melissa to the podcast. Her unique situation of eventually getting divorced, living in the same house with the future ex and kids, and both her and her…

Rachel and I dive into 6 strategies (3 each) we use not to become cynical, paranoid, or mean. We totally agree on needing a village to help lead the battle for divorce recovery. Topics of getting your ducks in a row, group therapy, putting up walls, closet wine, vasectomy, and…

Thanks to Jo for being on the show. It was just like coffee talk. It’s so informative to hear someone else’s story along with their struggles and successes in their divorce. It lets others know that there is hope out there post-divorce. Check out her Dirty Dishes Podcast. Her scope…

Rachel and I discuss our personal top 6 struggles in our divorce recovery process. It was fun from the get go. And, as usual, the craziness is infused in the podcast. Because we believe laughter is a necessary part of life. With our top 6 being the silent treatment, anger…

On our diamond anniversary Divorce Devil Podcast episode, it’s only fitting that we, once again, jump around with our favorite divorce topics and our current world. Rachel’s favorite, forgiveness starts us out and branches into the latest tragic events happening in America lately. Discussions of The Lincoln Lawyer, ball gags,…

We realize that laughter is some of the best medicine. But laughing in your divorce recovery? - yes! After a few divorce jokes, we talk about the way laughter can help in your divorce recovery. Some of the jokes are dry as hell but pretty funny. We think that finding…

We could have done this podcast in a few episodes. There are so many facets to social media and divorce recovery. We both agree that you shouldn’t just jump in with both feet and do a brain and/or heart dump. Social media is not the place for airing that laundry.…

How do you get over the guilt and failure feelings after divorce? As usual, it does get a little crazy towards the end of the podcast with talks of Dave Chappelle and Debbie Gibson. But other than that, we have some pretty good tips and tricks on getting over the…