July 20, 2025

Divorce Recovery 101: When Old Memories Haunt New Relationships 👻➡️😊 DD#226 || David and Rachel

Divorce Recovery 101: When Old Memories Haunt New Relationships 👻➡️😊 DD#226  ||  David and Rachel

Welcome to Divorce Devil Podcast! In this episode, David and Rachel dive deep into one of the most challenging parts of divorce recovery for men over 40: dealing with old memories and learning how to create new ones. Whether your divorce was amicable or a total “shit show,” we’re here to help you unpack those emotional suitcases and start living in the present. 🧳✨


Why Do Old Memories Hit So Hard After Divorce? If you’ve ever found yourself flooded with memories—good, bad, or bittersweet—when you revisit old vacation spots or family traditions, you’re not alone. For many men, especially over 40, these moments can trigger unexpected emotions. Maybe you’re trying to enjoy a new adventure, but your mind keeps drifting back to trips with your ex or your kids. Or perhaps you’re struggling to set boundaries and keep the past from clouding your future.


Rachel and David Share Real Talk & Real Solutions Rachel’s journey was more amicable, while David’s was all about boundaries and compartmentalizing. Together, they offer two unique perspectives on how men process divorce memories differently than women. From setting emotional boundaries to learning how to talk about the past without getting stuck in it, this episode is packed with practical advice and a few laughs along the way. 😂


Key Takeaways:

  • Why men and women process divorce memories differently

  • How to set healthy boundaries with your ex and your kids

  • Tips for making new memories without erasing the old ones

  • The importance of feeling your emotions (yes, it’s okay to cry, guys!)

  • How to avoid letting the past sabotage your new relationships


Are You Ready to Move Forward? Healing after divorce isn’t about forgetting the past—it’s about learning from it and building something better. Whether you’re co-parenting, starting to date again, or just trying to find peace, this episode will help you take the next step.


Join the Conversation! Have you struggled with old memories after your divorce? How do you handle vacations, holidays, or family traditions now? Drop a comment below and share your story! 👇 Your experience could help another man on his journey to recovery.


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Remember: You can’t drive forward if you’re always looking in the rearview mirror. Let’s build new memories together! 🚗💨

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