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April 26, 2025

Finding Your Divorce Recovery Life Buoys: 🛟 Navigating Divorce After 40 || David and Rachel

"🎙️ Welcome to the 'Don't Pick the Scab Podcast' with your hosts, David and Rachel, This episode dives deep into the concept of 'Life Buoys' 🛟 – those essential tools, habits, and people that help you stay afloat during the stormy seas of divorce recovery. For men over 40, navigating…

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April 18, 2025

🌟 Self-Care and Shenanigans: The Secret Sauce to Divorce Recovery! 💔

Welcome to the Don't Pick the Scab Podcast! 🎙️ We’re your hosts, David and Rachel , and today we're diving deep into the world of self-care during divorce recovery. 💔 In this episode, we explore why self-care is not just important—it's essential! When going through a divorce, it’s easy to…

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April 11, 2025

The Limbo of Divorce: Signs It’s Time to Move On

It's been a grip since we have been on YouTube... but we are back!! Welcome back to the Divorce Devil Podcast! 🎙️ Join your hosts, David and Rachel, in Episode 214, where we dive deep into the often-unspoken topic of "Limbo" in divorce recovery. Are you feeling stuck in a…

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Nov. 10, 2024

Setting healthy boundaries in your Divorce Recovery || DD196 || David and Rachel

Welcome to the Divorce Devil Podcast with our dynamic duo, David and Rachel! Where the almost 200 episodes of wisdom, humor, and the occasional snow day rant converge into the perfect storm of post-marital hilarity. Picture this: David, the voice of reason, with a penchant for turning life's lemons into…

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Oct. 26, 2024

Unpacking and Shoveling Your Sh!t on Your Path to Divorce Recovery - Junie Moon || DD195

Guest time! Welcome Junie Moon to the show. She is a Global Love Mentor, author, speaker and a Certified Shadow Work Coach. Her superpower is helping people unpack their past and move onto a better future. Discussions of the movie Ghost, unpack and heal from the past, risk manager, hopelessness,…

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Sept. 30, 2024

What would I tell my younger self in my divorce recovery? || DD#192 || David and Rachel

In this episode of Divorce Devil, hosts Rachel and David discuss the importance of self-reflection and the lessons learned from their experiences with divorce. They explore the complexities of relationships, the harsh realities of financial independence post-divorce, and the necessity of owning one's responsibilities. The conversation emphasizes the significance of…

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Sept. 12, 2024

Divorce Recovery / Not having control sucks a$$ || Divorce Devil Podcast #190 | David and Rachel

Well, here it is again. The craziness of the Divorce Devil Podcast. We take off with starting with the notion of no control in your divorce or divorce recovery to road construction. Never a dull moment. You’ll be hard pressed to find a more ‘unique’ divorce recovery podcast. Topics of…

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Aug. 31, 2024

Divorce Recovery and Owning Your Sh*t || Divorce Devil Podcast #189 || David and Rachel

Well, it is another interesting podcast by the two of us. Owning your sh*t encompasses so much. We mainly came from the way of it’s ok not to be ok. You are going through some epic sh*t for the first time and how you react at first might not be…

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Aug. 10, 2024

Laughter and Humor can be a key component to your divorce recovery / DDP #146

Laughter is almost overlooked in divorced recovery. It is the last thing people think about. It can be pretty therapeutic and fun to experience it.

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Aug. 10, 2024

Part 2 - The Middle Phase / Of the 3 Part Divorce Recovery Survival Guide || DDP#186

Well, here it is - the meat and potatoes of the middle of your divorce journey. We love doing these multiple part episodes. We tend to have something for everyone! Plus, without much preparation and after over 180 shows, our OJT advice, tips, trick and methods are flowing throughout the…

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Aug. 5, 2024

Eye of the Tiger, ABBA and your own personal healing playlist || DD179

One of ways Rachel healed was listening to sad songs. Me: gonna listen to ABBA. Choose your own playlist!

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July 29, 2024

Divorce Recovery, Boundaries and Flag Day || Divorce Devil Podcast #184 || David and Rachel

Believe it or not, this is the first show we have dedicated to boundaries. We all have been there. Not enough at first then maybe too much in the end. It is definitely problematic when healing. Discussions of your truths, accepting my sh*t wholeheartedly, Everybody is not your friend, they…

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July 23, 2024

Divorce Devil Podcast 091 || Lisa Lane Why be on 'HOW TO BUILD A SEX ROOM'

Maybe a part of your divorce recovery can be building a sex room in your back porch? Just saying. Lisa Lane is a hoot? Love ya LIsa!

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July 22, 2024

DD179 What do you leave behind to survive the storm?

Collateral damage can be great!

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July 22, 2024

Part Two of the three part series of the Divorce Storm: The eye of the storm || DDP#179

Well, here it is! Part two of the series. In this podcast, we discuss the challenges and unpredictability of going through a divorce. Using the metaphor of a storm to describe the emotional turmoil and chaos that can occur during the process. Watch out for the calm eye, it sometimes…

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July 22, 2024

Slip of the tongue! There is a difference between Ducks in a row and D*cks in a row. DD179

Sometimes the interview doesn't go as planned - even with the best intentions. But still comes off as productive!

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July 20, 2024

Having to Hate Your STBX in order to move on! DD178

You almost have to put your mind in a hate trance to put yourself in the mental position of moving on.

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July 19, 2024

DON'T LEAVE THE HOUSE WHEN THE DIVORCE STARTS! DD 178

That old crap of the man having to leave the house when the divorce starts is just that - crap. I wanted to see my kids every morning and every night. So I just moved downstairs in the basement until the divorce was final. Glad I did. Totally worth seeing…

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July 18, 2024

Get Out of Your Comfort Zone!

Do something new.... Take a chance... Put yourself out there. What do you have to lose. This is the time to make recoverable mistakes. Test it all out!

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July 17, 2024

Part 1: Getting the Sandbags Ready for the Divorce Storm

The first phase of the divorce storm - getting the sandbags ready. Your preparedness is related to your craziness going through it. Prepare!

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July 17, 2024

Part One of the three part series of the Divorce Storm: Getting the sandbags ready! || DDP#178

Here we go with another series. We actually love doing this. Part one of the three part series of the Divorce Storm - getting your sandbags ready. With all the three stages of divorce being important, this one is significant - it can lay the foundation for your recovery later.…

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July 14, 2024

Put Yourself Out There, Take a Chance || Divorce Devil Podcast #181

In your divorce recovery and you have a chance to meet some strangers, put yourself out there - you'll probably never see these strangers again. Time to work on your communication skills with no judgement. Rachel did on vacation. You can too!

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July 13, 2024

Get Out of Your Comfort Zone || Divorce Devil Podcast

Time to get out of your comfort zone in your divorce recovery. Take some chances with your decisions. Bend a little and watch you grow before your eyes.

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July 13, 2024

Friendships and Relationships before, during and after your divorce || Divorce Devil Podcast

Hello again... we are back on YouTube long and short. We did miss you and we plan to be here for quite a while for those who want to digest our products in video form. And for those who listen only audio we are sorry for the two week hiatus.…

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