Episodes

Oct. 6, 2024

5 negative and 5 positive components that can go wrong or right in yo…

In this episode, David and Rachel discuss the complexities of co-parenting after divorce, sharing both positive experiences and challenges.  With concentrating on 5 negative and 5 positive things that involve co-parenting, they emphasize the importanc...

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Sept. 30, 2024

What would I tell my younger self in my divorce recovery? || DD#192…

In this episode of Divorce Devil, hosts Rachel and David discuss the importance of self-reflection and the lessons learned from their experiences with divorce. They explore the complexities of relationships, the harsh realities of financial independen...

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Sept. 16, 2024

Social Media is not Positive Therapy in Your Divorce Recovery || DD…

Social media during divorce recovery.  Rachel says be smart and I say don’t do it - take a break.  It never turns out well, most of the time.  So many people have an opinion on social media and divorce.  I have heard of instances where social media ca...

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Sept. 8, 2024

Divorce Recovery / Not having control sucks a$$ || Divorce Devil Po…

Well, here it is again.  The craziness of the Divorce Devil Podcast.  We take off with starting with the notion of no control in your divorce or divorce recovery to road construction.  Never a dull moment.  You’ll be hard pressed to find a more ‘uniqu...

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Aug. 31, 2024

Divorce Recovery and Owning Your Sh*t || Divorce Devil Podcast #189…

Well, it is another interesting podcast by the two of us.  Owning your sh*t encompasses so much.  We mainly came from the way of it’s ok not to be ok.  You are going through some epic sh*t for the first time and how you react at first might not be the...

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Aug. 24, 2024

Divorce Recovery - The Initial Pain, Dude Wipes, Wash Your Stank Ass!…

Well, it happened again.  We went off the rails again during a podcast.  We realize the initial pain of divorce is sometimes so overwhelming and intense.  Our own experiences play a part here.  All we can do is present what we went through and hopeful...

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Aug. 16, 2024

3 - 5 MINUTE DIVORCE RECOVERY SUBJECT SLAM!!

Well, here it is - the New 5 Minute Subject Slam with Rachel and David.  She doesn't know the subjects until I start the timer.  Let's see how it goes!  Co-parentingBoundariesPracticing what you preachWe are realLove when your kids leave, it's okGirls...

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Aug. 16, 2024

Part 3 - The Ending Phase (Actually the beginning of healing) / Of th…

Closing up the three part series of the Divorce Recovery Survival Guide was fun as always.  Getting a little off tract, like we do, we do understand that the third phase is actually where most of serious healing starts.  Discussions of Stella getting h...

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Aug. 9, 2024

Part 2 - The Middle Phase / Of the 3 Part Divorce Recovery Survival …

Well, here it is - the meat and potatoes of the middle of your divorce journey.  We love doing these multiple part episodes.  We tend to have something  for everyone!  Plus, without much preparation and after over 180 shows, our OJT advice, tips, trick...

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Aug. 2, 2024

The 3 Part Divorce Recovery Survival Guide / Part 1 - The Beginning P…

Well, here it is - what to do when the divorce is fresh or hasn’t even started yet.  Even though we are not professional therapist, we have a list of things, looking back, we wished we would have know about and/or done.  We would ask for forgiveness wi...

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July 29, 2024

Divorce Recovery, Boundaries and Flag Day || Divorce Devil Podcast …

Believe it or not, this is the first show we have dedicated to boundaries.  We all have been there.  Not enough at first then maybe too much in the end.  It is definitely problematic when healing.  Discussions of your truths, accepting my sh*t wholehea...

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July 19, 2024

Accepting your new reality along with forgiveness and giving no f*cks…

This is a continuation from the last podcast of forgiveness, contentment and happy.  This is final prize - accepting your new reality.  I know it is hard to fathom that for some people.  Discussions of not letting the past define you, pay attention to...

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July 13, 2024

Forgiveness, Contentment and Happy / Infinity Happy || Divorce Devi…

How do we start?  Talking about the complex relationship between forgiveness, contentment and happy was a tough one.  We still agree that forgiveness still have a not giving a f*ck component.  Discussions of waiting for someone’s sorry, forgetting time...

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July 7, 2024

Friendships and Relationships before, during and after your divorce …

Sorry for the two week hiatus.  Rachel was vacationing and I was down right lazy!  But we are back with another electrified session.  Friendships - before, during, and after your divorce….  What a such a complicated subject.  We discussed topics of tou...

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June 14, 2024

Part three of the three part series of the Divorce Storm: After the s…

Well, here it is!  The final installment of the Divorce Storm.  And with all its collateral damage.  Your life is definitely changed - what you probably perceive as no for the better.  But, this is your time to finally realize you have to embrace this...

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June 7, 2024

Part two of the three part series of the Divorce Storm: The calm and …

Well, here it is! Part two of the series.  In this podcast, we discuss the challenges and unpredictability of going through a divorce.  Using the metaphor of a storm to describe the emotional turmoil and chaos that can occur during the process.  Watch...

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June 1, 2024

Part One of the three part series of the Divorce Storm: Getting the s…

Here we go with another series.  We actually love doing this.  Part one of the three part series of the Divorce Storm - getting your sandbags ready.  With all the three stages of divorce being important, this one is significant - it can lay the foundat...

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May 24, 2024

Taking full responsibility, EMDR and Loneliness / Dawn Wiggins, Ed.S.…

In this episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast, David and Rachel interview therapist Dawn Wiggins, a licensed marriage and family therapist who shares her holistic approach to helping people recover from divorce. They discuss topics such as childhood tra...

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May 19, 2024

Uncommunicated expectations are premeditated resentments || Divorce…

Well, what can we say?  That’s quite a mouthful - uncommunicated expectations are premeditated resentments!  Rachel takes the reigns early and we finally come back to earth.  Communication is the key in this podcast.  It’s just that simple…..  DO IT!Di...

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May 10, 2024

Wade in the water and the new eBook - ‘It’s Ok to Hate Your Ex’ || …

So, I took my spare time to create the new eBook ‘It’s OK to Hate Your Ex’.  It took a while to complete it.  It’s way different than people think it would be.  Rachel and I discuss the book and a bunch of other things - as we do!  Discussions of long...

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April 28, 2024

Two Cousins - Guilt and Blame || Divorce Devil Podcast #174 || Da…

This is the most impromptu podcast we have tried as of yet.  We both came to the studio with no plans of a topic and pulled one out of the sky.  And, it turned out pretty well.  Guild and blame can derail your divorce recovery in many ways.  Conversati...

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April 19, 2024

What is an X Factor that can start or propel you in your divorce reco…

One of our favorite subjects… the X factor.   In our divorce recoveries we have both experienced different X factors.  We do agree that you have some sort of compass in order to start healing, and that X factor(s) are them.  What is yours??Discussions...

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April 12, 2024

The wins and fails during dating in your divorce recovery || Divorc…

It’s another fun Divorce Devil Podcast.  Our subject today is the interesting wins and fails in dating during divorce recovery.  So many things to cover here.  We feel we only scratched the surface.  Discussions of you are never really ready to date, p...

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April 6, 2024

Day 10 of the 10 day of feeling better in your divorce recovery - Cel…

Well, we are finally at the last episode of the 10 part series of feeling better in your divorce recovery.  It is so important to celebrate you every now and then.  You deserve it!  Taking time for you is paramount.  Your value is intrinsic even though...

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