This episode might sound a little like we are giving a play-by-play on what to do to start your divorce. We are here to let you know that it is not. It is more of our personal playbooks of what …

Well, today’s podcast discusses David’s favorite word - no. With a generally negative connotation, the word no is very interesting in its use and misuse. Saying no can actually say that you care about yourself. Discussions...

Divorce recovery, Valentine’s Day, and love - what a trifecta. How have your love or loving ways changed during and after your divorce? Or has it changed at all? Listen as we explore the two aforementioned questions. Topi...

Well, as usual, this podcast did not disappoint. Rachel was all over the sores/scabs/scars trifecta. It definitely ties into divorce - during and after. The quicker you get control of the trifecta, the easier and quicker y...

How are a liquor hangover and a divorce hangover alike and different? We explore both sides of the equation. Starting off with some of our drinking histories, we dive into the topic of divorce hangovers. Realizing it was a...

This podcast was way deeper than most. First, we had to agree on the definition of discernment and further along, how to fix it. This one was a doozy. For the first time, we both came with actual notes! Rachel’s …

Well, I never thought I’d be at this moment recording the 100th episode. When I started this in 2016, I never realized that there would be 100 episodes. I pretty much thought it was a passing thing. Then I met …

First, sorry for the lackluster audio, but the message makes up for it. Our remote software didn’t really work that well. Well anyways - the top 6 attitudes that can definitely derail your divorce recovery!!! With the six ...

This is the fourth and final series on peeling back the onion-like layers of divorce recovery. We try our best and succeed in tying all four sections together in this podcast. Hopefully, people can go on from here and reali...

In part three of peeling back the onion-like layers of divorce recovery, we get down to the nitty-gritty. This episode was retitled to ‘The Art of Giving No F*cks’, from figuring out what comes next because you have to basi...

Part 1 - the shock of it all Part 2 - settling down and getting your footing Part 3 - figuring out what comes next Part 4 - coming to grips with it all and starting to heal Part 2, …

Welcome to the first installment of four discussing the subject of the layers of divorce recovery. We feel that the first step of course is shock. Those of us who have gone through this - we know this is true. …

Welcome back our old friend Peggy. Not on the mic since Divorce Devil 039, it’s nice to have her back for a visit. We all three chimed in on things we haven’t healed from. Discussions of : I’m never going …

What can we say? The Zombie Hoe Phase. Pretty self-explanatory? We debated on this subject to the fact that was it even a phase. But, yes, it damn is!! Not everyone goes through it. But most people do go through …

With a lot of effort and misdirection in between, we finally get to the fourth and final stage of ‘I just signed the divorce papers, and I’m legally divorced! Now what?’ This episode has a lot of our hearts and …

After watching How to Build a Sex Room (HTBASR) on Netflix a few weeks ago both of us decided that it would be awesome if Lisa Lane from episode 8 would be on the show. It was just a far-reaching …

The podcast starts off a little crazy (as usual) before we settle down and get after the subject at hand. Enjoying the new and ‘working’ technology in the Divorce Devil Podcast Studio, we dropped some of our sometimes skewed...

Just a slight departure from our 4 part series, 'I signed the divorce papers, what's next?' Welcome, Tracy Ann Moore-Grant from the Amicable Divorce Network. Frustrated by mean and nasty divorces, Tracy started the network t...

The is the second podcast in the series dealing with effects, consequences and happenings in the second stage of four dealing with divorce-recovery after signing the papers. Even though we feel it is not as intense a stage a...

Welcome to the first of four installments of divorce recovery stage healing. We discuss our first stage, appropriately named Stage One - it consists of the exact moment you sign your divorce decree papers and a few days late...

Welcome A.J. Grossman, J.D. to the mic. A.J. runs an online presence called Leap Frog Divorce. It’s quite a different law firm/enterprise. They specialize in divorce dispute resolution. They also focus on the compassionat...

This is one of those rare times we actually stuck to the script and item numbers. Carrying over traits and/or qualities from pre-divorce to post-divorce can be detrimental. We are listing some and giving you a heads up for ...

Just when I thought we couldn’t do a podcast with more laughter than the Divorce and Laughter Podcast 074, we did it with this one. With a new mixer with some pretty awesome effects, it definitely gets a test. Discussing …

As usual, we don’t stick to the actual number in the title. We just get so carried away. We decided to infuse a little positivity into the podcast today. These are the 5 positive events/lessons we have experienced in our …

Join us as we dive into our top 5 (and more) roller coaster events during our divorce recoveries. Ranging from subjects of friends to missing your ex, we glide along the ups and downs of each of our struggles after …

Communication is so important in the pre, middle and post-phases of divorce. This podcast could have gone on for hours but we had to shorten it down and maybe do a part two! The four subjects of in-person, text, email …

Infused with technical difficulties and laughter (as usual), we actually got through all of our top 10 lists. Tales of heartbreak and anger, dating too soon, Jesus got Covid from the little Drummer Boy, ‘naw - you’re a dude’, guilting …

Welcome, Melissa to the podcast. Her unique situation of eventually getting divorced, living in the same house with the future ex and kids, and both her and her soon-to-be-ex in relationships - was hard to swallow at first. ...

Rachel and I dive into 6 strategies (3 each) we use not to become cynical, paranoid, or mean. We totally agree on needing a village to help lead the battle for divorce recovery. Topics of getting your ducks in a …

Thanks to Jo for being on the show. It was just like coffee talk. It’s so informative to hear someone else’s story along with their struggles and successes in their divorce. It lets others know that there is hope out …

Rachel and I discuss our personal top 6 struggles in our divorce recovery process. It was fun from the get go. And, as usual, the craziness is infused in the podcast. Because we believe laughter is a necessary part of …

On our diamond anniversary Divorce Devil Podcast episode, it’s only fitting that we, once again, jump around with our favorite divorce topics and our current world. Rachel’s favorite, forgiveness starts us out and branches i...

We realize that laughter is some of the best medicine. But laughing in your divorce recovery? - yes! After a few divorce jokes, we talk about the way laughter can help in your divorce recovery. Some of the jokes are …

We could have done this podcast in a few episodes. There are so many facets to social media and divorce recovery. We both agree that you shouldn’t just jump in with both feet and do a brain and/or heart dump. …

As usual, it does get a little crazy towards the end of the podcast with talks of Dave Chappelle and Debbie Gibson. But other than that, we have some pretty good tips and tricks on getting over the feelings of …

Rachel brings up the existence of the ‘no longer’. No longer married. No longer depending on another person for help. No longer walking on eggshells. Starting to do most of the things by yourself. Topics of convenience, ...

Rachel and I discuss all sorts of ways to realize, find, accept, and do your happiness after divorce. With happiness being one of the most important keys to divorce recovery, you may want to start the happiness search before...

This is our special ‘69’ show and we wanted to uplift the celebration with oral communication. While this episode does not talk about oral sex, it does discuss methods to make divorce easier and smoother. We both agreed tha...

‘Angela’ is back from DD 059. This time talking about the ins and outs of the middle stage of her current divorce. We are touched that she returned and wanted to give listeners a real perspective of an ongoing divorce. …

Rachel and I dive into ways to get past the hurt, anger and disappointment. Methods can include ripping off the bandaid, leaning into the pain, putting walls up, compartmentalizing, opening the door a little bit, giving no f...

This podcast could have gone forever. There are so many things you shouldn’t do at the end or post-divorce. Ranging from not taking the time to heal, dating too soon, doing unhealthy habits, letting the divorce affect your ...

What is the best traditional or non-traditional therapy for people going through a divorce? Listen as we discuss the topics of different types of therapy. Some people think it is the kiss of death and is for weaklings. We ...

Smooth co-parenting - fact or fiction? Molding two subjects into one. Co-parenting and narcissism. Rachel and I have very real and dissimilar experiences of co-parenting. We think there is no right or wrong way to do it a...

Tracy reached out to me about being on the show over a year ago. With Covid times and all, we finally got a chance to Zoom this podcast. Man, it was a doozy. I learned so much about narcissistic behavior. …

Want to start dating after divorce? Tips, tricks, and methods to lessen the pain of your post-divorce dating experience. Focusing mostly on online dating, we dive into some of the yes and no factors existing in that space. ...

How do we start to describe this episode? Well, first, we dove into the topic of self-love and the importance it plays with yourself and with others. Significant other subjects include, cut my grass naked, love is different...

We kinda struggled with a topic for today. We were initially going to talk about the effects on kids after divorce and positive ways to combat the negativity. But we changed to don’t listen to all the haters and be …

We want to thank ‘Angela’, Rachel’s friend that is currently going through a divorce, for her courage and forthcomings in being on this podcast and providing our listeners a different aspect of a divorce. In the trenches, ‘A...

It’s another wild and crazy podcast with one of our favorite subjects - sex after divorce. This subject is loaded with ideas, hangups, theories, lotions and potions, toys, reading materials, and alike. Topics of tacos and s...

Fresh from a Raisin Canes podcast last week, Marianne ventures back to the studio to talk about her expertise with identity and its relationship to those who are divorcing or divorced. I didn’t realize how much you and the ...